Prepping a Student for a Fight!
morgothan | 12 11 2008One of my favorite students came to me on Monday and explained that she maybe getting into a fist fight at school with a boy. So the first thing I did was try and talk her out of it, and make sure that she was not going to just go and fight the kid. However, her reasoning for thinking she is going to get into the fight, is she thinks he is going to try and hit her. So not wanting to see one of my favorite students getting beaten up I decided to forgo my own training for the hour, and work with her one on one. I put her in gloves, and grabbed some pads, and had her go to town on me. Working punching patterns, punch kick combinations, and punishing her when she dropped her hands. For a fourteen year old girl she is pretty mean. She follows the get in your personal space and dont leave policy of fighting. None stop attacks too. The only thing she needs to work on is keeping her non attacking hand defending her face. Too often I was able to whack her in the side of the head while we where fighting. I worked with her for almost a full hour non stop aggression. By the end she was getting a little winded, but still had enough energy to work on her forms, and not just die on the floor. Her cardio is great, and will be an asset if she does get into this fight. Next class I work with her, I plan on working some chin na, to get her better at grappling, and maybe work some ground work with her. Teach her how to handle herself should the fight go to the floor.
I kind of envy her, sometimes I wish I was a kid again. Knowing what I know now, I would love to go back to when I could get into fights, and the only thing I had to worry about was detention, or the occasional out of school suspension. Not that I condone getting into fights at school, but to be able to actually try some of the techniques that I know now, in a non tournament/teaching/controlled environment. To see what really works, and what doesn’t. That would be invaluable.








Fighting loses its appeal as the weapons used (human or otherwise) become more and more lethal. I just can’t seem to get my students to realize that fighting can end VERY poorly. In high school, no one really knows how to fight, but in the real world there are people who would demolish you. I typically think of one of my hothead students picking a fight with our former Judo sensai. They’d be lucky if they ended up in the emergency room.
Its true that the more lethal the fight, the less appealing it is. This is why as I said I kind of envy it the high school fights, because as you said there is no real threat of lethality. Before a fight can reach that point it will be broken up, or someone will run away. In the real world it is much much different. I for one would not want to go to a bar and get into a fight, I would get to find out what works and what doesn’t, but the chance of real injury to not only myself, by my opponent, and anyone else standing around is far to great. Also in high school once the fight is over, it is usually over. In the real world, next time that guy sees you, he may have a gun.